If life were a movie, you'd be the hero and main actor in your story. But what you don't realize is that you have Actor-Observer Bias. You need to change that.
Ha! Good for you! Actually I sometimes do the same thing. Though come to think of it, I’m not sure when I blame their personality and when I come up with other reasons. I will need to pay attention and see if there’s a theme.
I go the other way and assume that there’s a reason for lateness etc. it drives my partner mad. ‘Stop making excuses for everyone!’
Ha! Good for you! Actually I sometimes do the same thing. Though come to think of it, I’m not sure when I blame their personality and when I come up with other reasons. I will need to pay attention and see if there’s a theme.