One thing I learned the hard way is holding back information, thinking I’m not experienced enough or I might be wrong. That never helps. Leadership doesn’t grow in silence. Urgency also felt like oxygen back then, like everything had to be done right now.
Over time, I’ve learned that real growth came when I kept my mindset open and my ego aside. The moments I chose to observe, listen, and absorb taught me far more than the moments I tried to lead from certainty. When you share openly, you learn just as much in return—and with that comes the ability to shift your thinking, adapt, and see things differently
Your comments and insights above are exactly why I like working with female leaders the most. And why I think, in general, female leaders are better than males.
In fact, I was just exploring video editing companies. I narrowed it down to three of them that all seemed to similarly fit my need.
I went with the most expensive one.
Why? It was founded by - and is led by - two women. Because of that, I have greater trust that it will be a reliable company.
This feels very relatable! Had some mentors throughout my leadership career good and bad! But lots of those lessons feel the same. What resonates the most is culture over competence!
One thing I learned the hard way is holding back information, thinking I’m not experienced enough or I might be wrong. That never helps. Leadership doesn’t grow in silence. Urgency also felt like oxygen back then, like everything had to be done right now.
How’d you get out of it?
Over time, I’ve learned that real growth came when I kept my mindset open and my ego aside. The moments I chose to observe, listen, and absorb taught me far more than the moments I tried to lead from certainty. When you share openly, you learn just as much in return—and with that comes the ability to shift your thinking, adapt, and see things differently
Ah if only every leader were like you!
Your comments and insights above are exactly why I like working with female leaders the most. And why I think, in general, female leaders are better than males.
In fact, I was just exploring video editing companies. I narrowed it down to three of them that all seemed to similarly fit my need.
I went with the most expensive one.
Why? It was founded by - and is led by - two women. Because of that, I have greater trust that it will be a reliable company.
I know the feeling. I’ve been there.
I completely see you.
This feels very relatable! Had some mentors throughout my leadership career good and bad! But lots of those lessons feel the same. What resonates the most is culture over competence!
Yes, I always say hire for mindset over skillset.
I'd rather hire a B player who fits in with the culture than an A player who doesn't.
Most likely the B player will elevate to an A and the A player will sink to a B.
Such a amazing explanation. I learned so much from your experience about leadership. Thanks for sharing, Mate!